Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Planning the Wedding Door Games

Door games form an integral part of a Chinese wedding. When the groom arrives, he and his entourage will be blocked at the door by the bride’s family members and friends. This is to symbolize that they are reluctant in allowing her to be married off. The groom and his supporting buddies will thus have to pass through several obstacles before he can finally get to his bride.

But for many people, these wedding door games, designed to trick the groom and his buddies, are the fun part just before the Tea Ceremony. I had 5 “sisters” (Chi Mui) to execute the door games while Sze also had 5 “brothers” (Heng Tai).

However, we were also warned by a few relatives and friends to know the groom well enough before planning the tricks as not everyone would be as sporting. Anyway, our door game plans were quite reasonable:


Hang an orange in a stocking on the belt to hit another orange on the floor

Eat dried bee

Brush teeth with fermented bean curd

Sufficient Angpow $$$

Hula hoop


But somehow, more tricks got added on the wedding day itself, probably thought up by someone else:

Drink Guinness Stout from a straw

Sing a song


More video clips and pictures of the wedding door games can be viewed in our:

- Video Gallery:
Alcohol Straw, Orange Balls, Fear Factor & Dental Care and Ang Pow Toll

- Photo Gallery:
Traditional Ceremonies and Traditional Ceremonies – More Photos

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